when user login.. when they have PM..
that will be show some pupup (AJAX will cool)
at the center of screen (or pages)

it will show:
1. from
2. date
3. content from the message.

and if Admin it's also show how many submission must be approve or deleted..

sorry for my bad english

ok i understand ^^

can "Mem" put [code][/code] tag to artikel and blog?

It already exist for all html fields